How to seduce a woman

 

How to seduce a woman

 

The art of seduction is a very interesting topic and one that not enough men are familiar with. Seducing a woman well is a great skill to have, whether you are single and dating or you want to keep seducing  your  woman. Seduction is all about paying attention to someone’s desires and moving forward accordingly.

Women are different, their liking and disliking are different. There might be different ways to seduce women. Before we get to different practical tools of seduction, let’s cover the basics.

Watch out your appearance

 

You need to take care of your appearance, if you want a woman to notice you. Putting in an effort when it comes to your personal hygiene, grooming and clothing is important. Work on dressing up if you expect to see someone you are attracted to. Just keep in mind. It’s sexy to be yourself. Strive to look your best on your term. You are one of the best !! So don’t copy anyone. When you show up looking good, you are communicating to her that you care and that you have a lot to offer.

Body language

Keep your body language open and confident. Direct and confident body language can signal your interest. Try using cues to show a woman you are attracted to her and interested in physical and sexual too. Don’t cross your arms and keep your torso and face turned in her direction. This will communicate openness and a sense of safety to her. Also keep an eye on her body language, if she equally open? Or is she closing down or turning away from you.

 Be admirable

Ask yourself, do you admire yourself. First try to be likeable, Don’t jump onto getting conclusion but spare some time to be her first sip of tea or coffee and the first and foremost thing to do is to be likeable. Woman first needs to like you to start a friendly conversation. This is the first phase. You have to the person who is liked. Just forget about seducing her if you are not likeable.

Choose a nice place

 

Where you take her on a date together plays a part in seducing. Nothing speaks romance quite like a full moon, a classy restaurant or a lovely spot in nature. It doesn’t have to be very luxurious or expensive but you do need to put some thought into it. Seducing her in a short, crappy, crowded or loud spot or environment, it is just not going to be as effective. So you are looking nice and handsome and your surrounding are lovely and hopefully romantic. That is if you were able to choose, where you are going to spend the time with her. Choose the appropriate place where she can enjoy freely and feel safe, romantic.

Be a gentleman

Next thing to focus on is being  a gentleman towards her but also towards others around you. Be chivatrous, courteous and respectful. Don’t try to push her or convince her to do with you anything before she is ready, that would actually be a big turnoff, and when she enjoys the way that you treat her and she admires the way that you treat others, you are off to a great start. Besides a gentleman and gentlemanly way of conducting yourself is very romantic and attractive to woman, and hence it’s a great tool in your seduction toolkit.

Be a good listener

It has normally been observed that poor listening skills a terribly unattractive quality. When you approach a woman, try to listen to her. Women tend to be attracted to those who seem interested in them. Rather than boasting about your own accomplishment and telling all your achievements and stories, try listening instead.

A man who listens, comes across as deep caring and patient. The quality of your conversation with her will also be much better, since you will learn so much more about her and you will be able to guide the conversation better by asking her to elaborate on particular topics by adding your own insights on topics that are important to her.

Since physical and sexual attraction is tied to personality. Getting to know a person well can actually enhance your sexual feelings for that person. So if you do end up successfully seducing a woman, you might enjoy the sexual encounter more if you know her very well.

Make her laugh

 

No woman would be interested in your daily routine stories, she would expect happiness when she is with you. So a bit of humour in your conversation with her is going to give you extra points in her eyes. If she has fun with you, there is a big chance that she will want to hang out with you more. So make sure to bring along your funny side and while jokes are a wonderful addition to your conversation with her. Make sure to do more than joke. Don’t try to impress her, don’t try to think of the perfect things to do and say. Just focus on fun and building a connection. But be careful your jokes or funny stories have to be sober which make laugh and she enjoys, never use any filthy or disgraceful language.

Open to her

 

Opening up to her about something deep, personal or even vulnerable to you will be really seductive. Women look for a person with whom they can have a profound emotional connection and to this kind of deep shares will show her that she can have love to be with you, also you opening up to her will invite her to do the same. And there is something truly powerful about two people sharing with each other deeply. It’s bonding, intimate and very enjoyable.

Notice similarities

Whenever you realise that there are any similarities between the two of you point it out, bring it to her attention. We naturally feel connected to people that we have things in common with. It creates a sense of trust, closeness and familiarity, So use that to your advantage.

Eye contact

Maintaining a good quality eye contact is always great but particularly so when you are trying to seduce her. Make sure to keep strong and steady eye contact when you’re talking to her. Don’t stare instantly that can be unnerving, and it is also good to break the eye connection from time to time. When you don’t flinch, don’t hesitate and keep strong eye contact while smiling warmly or slyly, it all communicates masculinity. Basically find that sweet spot of looking her in the eye calmly, warmly, encouragingly , but without being too intense. This will communicate to her your confidence, your solid background and it will make her more likely to trust you.

 

Make her feel special

 

We all like to feel special so this one can really earn you extra points in her eyes. So make sure to notice things about her, about things that she is talking about. This will help you pay her a meaningful compliment, a compliment that will show that you have been paying attention. So don’t just say – You are beautiful or anything else generic compliment  her on something that you know she finds valuable or important.

Be a little mysterious

Women like the mysterious men, don’t open your cards in very initial stage. Be gentle and courteous, and the same time, be very bold. While opening up to her is attractive, so keeping a little bit of mystery. You don’t have to answer every single question that she asks, you can tease her a little. You can say oh, wouldn’t you like to know that ? Or I will tell you next week. She will think more about you till the next meeting. It will leave her even more interested in you.

Go slow

Seduction is all about timing. Go slow, take your time in the seduction process. Part of what makes a person want another person is the anticipation. When you meet a person you are interested in, take your time to proceed. Wait little bit to approach her and start off by listening more than you talk. Never reveal your intention right away as this might be off putting. Don’t try to rush her to any particular outcome or action. Building the attraction slowly, patiently will assure that it will last much longer.

Ask her for a favour

We help people that we like and we like the people who help. It’s human psychologically. So asking her for a little favour might be a good way to deepen the feelings that she already has for you. Generally women prefer to help a person whom they like. It creates closeness also. So don’t hesitate to ask for a favour.

Boyfriend material

Women look for someone quite particular as a partner. So when you show her qualities in yourself that are attractive, she will be more likely to see you a boyfriend material, Don’t necessarily tell her that you are dependable, caring, protective or trustworthy, instead say it to her through your action or tell her of a recent experience where you showed off your amazing qualities.     

Touch her

 

A little bit of gentle non sexual touch might be really good idea. Touch her and stroke her arm or may be even touch her hair if things are going well. Find ways to break the touch barrier flirtatiously and create some sexual tension. Hold her hand to lead. Show her way by placing your hand on the small of her back. Try and slowly get a woman more comfortable with your touch.

But be mindful of her response Verbal or non verbal, If she is not comfortable with you touching her, if she is putting away, that might mean not yet.

Focus on her erogenous zones

 

Erogenous zones are parts of the body that stimulate sexual desire when touched, kissed, licked, or otherwise caressed. Not everyone’s erogenous zones are the same, but certain areas of the body tend to be sensitive for many women. The neck and ears have many nerve ending and are generally not touched during the day. They might respond well of kissing, sucking, and gentle biting. The abdomen, lower back, and inner thighs are also sensitive to the touch. Many women derive sexual pleasure from being touched here.

 

So gentleman Seducing a woman is not any kind of miracle. It’s an art, which you have to learn and practice. The best way to seduce a woman would be like to keep her happy, your full bucket of laughter, naughty stories, crazy games and of course teasing would certainly turn her on.

Remember the big secret is that it’s not how wealthy you’re, how smart you look. Not at all, it’s entirely all about how you can make woman feel when she is around you.

If you have capabilities to make woman feel appreciated, if you can connect with woman on a deeper level, all while teasing, flirting and having fun. Then woman will also love being around you and adore you. And you will be able to have as many great relationships with beautiful woman.

Women love men who are challenging, who stand up for themselves and who above all else are fun to be around with. So focus on all above and seducing a woman won’t be a big task for you, and you would certainly go very far.

FAQ –

How to seduce a woman at first sight?

Look at the person from top to bottom with a lovely smile. Open your mouth and make O, just to show your appreciation.

Do women like to be touched?

Might  be, if they feel impressed to see you. As a man you should touch her initially and hold back. If she feels good she will let you move further with pleasing smile.

What woman search in man?

Women look for someone quite particular as a partner. she will be more likely to see you a boyfriend material. Before moving further assess yourself.

 

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How to Masturbate your man

 

How to Masturbate your man

 

I do believe that all of you know very well how to satisfy your man. By using different kind of sexual acts such as oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex, of course with mutual consent.

If due to some circumstances e.g. privacy issues, scarcity of safe place, or he is not in mood for any of those normal sexual activities. How many times you thought to satisfy him with your fingers?

Pleasuring your man’s penis with your fingers or hand job is really a very underused sexual technique, but your hands and fingers have a lot more flexibility and can be used in much more creative way than your mouth or even your vagina.

 

Let’s discuss about much more than simply moving your hand up and down on his shaft. So if you are ready to learn more how to give him an exquisite manual pleasuring session. We are looking deeper into, it seems that many women don’t quite understand the penis and because of that, they are embarrassed to ask how to touch it or what to do with it. They presume that all sexual activities have to initiated and perform by men only. They sort of grab it and hope for the best. But that’s not necessarily the best way to play with his wand. So here are few from the best sex tips for an amazing hand job experience.

How he masturbate!!

 

First of all it’s good to ask him about his magical rod. What he likes, what doesn’t he like, how to best touch him and anything else that you should know. And this is because all men and all penises are different. So if you simply keep doing what worked for your previous partner, it might not necessarily work for your current one.

The next, watch him masturbate, or you can simply ask him to masturbate before you, it wonderful thing for learning about his particular preference is to watch him masturbate. If he is willing to show you. This will be a great source of information and insights about the kind of touch, speed, pressure etc, that he enjoys most.

 Know his penis!!

 

It is strongly recommended for you to examine his penis with his consent. Sit down with him when he’s relaxing, take his wand into your hands and explore it as if you have never held one in your hands before.

Be curious and ask questions, explore and admire the colour, textures, length and thickness and the other sensitive spot. This will help you to create this sort of pleasure map that will guide you whenever you want to touch and stimulate him. You can repeat this exercise again while he is hard.

Generally, not at all, men use lubes when they stroke themselves, you can suggest him to let you use. And convince him that it can really add to his sensations, some men enjoy simply oil based lubricants. Others like to play with different ones. So ask your man what he likes most or experiment with different lubes of various fragrances and colour of his choice to find out what works best.

Everyone probably aware that the shaft of the penis enjoys touch and friction, but do you know that the most sensitive part of the entire penis is the head, where number of nerves come to end  and the frenulum. You will find the frenulum on the underside of the penis, right where the shaft meets the head.

In fact most men stroke only the head when they want to take themselves to the climax. So make sure to give this area some special kind of love. More pressure might be needed, that’s why, many men complain that their female partner, don’t apply enough pressure when they stroke them.

And yes many ladies don’t realise just how much pressure a penis can take. Women typically compare it to their own vagina and clitoris which are more soft, sensitive and require much more gentle touch.

So ladies, do take note – there is biological difference between your vagina and his penis, so he might expect more pressure than you think.

Adding variety to your hand job toolkit will surely make him melt in your hands and you don’t necessarily need to know different ways to stroke him. But a few solid exciting ways to move and twist your hands along his shaft will surely send him to some blissful places and while touching him in the most masterful ways.

 

Keep your eyes on his body language while your fingers are moving on his penis, Is he relaxed, breathing deeply, bringing his pelvic towards you, closing his eyes, or moaning? Is his body language open and receptive? If it is, you are going great and if not, do check in with him to see what he needs more from you.

 Be connected with him!!

 

A very important part of any well executed sexual technique is to remain connected with your partner. So don’t let loose yourself in the technique, don’t forget that there is actually a man and you are attached to his penis. Make sure to look him in his eyes lovingly or passionately here and there throughout this experience. It will make much hotter for him.

While you are giving some amazing touch to his penis, Please don’t forget his beautiful testicles where your favourite white, thick cum is stored. They will really love your gentle, sensational manual loving. So use one hand on his penis while with other gently keep touching and continue giving massage to his testicles.Most women realise that the best orgasm come when they take the time with their arousal. Because while a quick friction focused stimulation can bring him to a brief, sharp release, a longer experience full of touching, stroking and teasing will take him to a much deeper, more powerful climax.

 Tease his masculinity!!

 

So take your time and don’t rush him, make sure to also allow your hands to leave his mighty wand and to also explore area of his body. A good hand job doesn’t need to include keeping your hands on his penis all the time.

It’s okay to tease him a bit to move your hands around in order to stroke his groin, inner thighs, lower belly, nipples, neck, face, ears etc. If he likes, you can gently tease the opening of his anus also. It would be really thrilling.

Some men find a combination of manual and oral stimulation particularly more pleasurable. So ladies keep busy your hand on the shaft of his penis, as you use your mouth on the head of his penis. Keep rotating your tongue all around it. So you can lick or suck the head of his penis while your hand is working the shaft and testicles, or your mouth can move up and down on his shaft with your hand etc. Certainly it is going to increase the sensation in his entire body.

Try different sex toys to your hand job!!

 

Open up a whole new world of possibilities for you. There are so many different accessories that can be used in combination with manual strokes. You can easily get sex toys for him also, if he like to try artificial vagina and surely it has to be a great fun if those used by you on his penis.

 

Who says that he is the only one who gets aroused during a hand job? Stroke him with one hand while you allow the other one to stroke and caress your own body or place a vibrator or any other sex toy under your vagina and clitoris, so it can stimulate your vagina too, or while your hands dance on his penis, you can easily stroke yourself too against his legs, a pillow or any other accessory of your choice. He will surely love witnessing your passion and bliss, while he is being pleasured by your hands.   

 Use your breasts!!

 

Your beautiful breasts can also play with his hard wand and easily add more sexual pleasure, put some lube on your breast, just cover his penis in between your breasts and tight them using your both hands. Now it’s time to move your breasts in so many style and pace. If he prefers, you can make him cum on your breasts or you can resume to use your fingers again.

 Place your hips!!

 

Don’t forget that your man loves your fleshy buttocks too, your breech of hips turn on his penis hard like iron rod. Put some lube on his penis as well as in the breech of your hips too, to avoid any unnecessary rashes. Sit on him in reverse position hold his shaft from it’s base and gently start moving your hips in up and down position or from side to side on his penis, as you both like and enjoy. It will certainly going to increase the passionate sensation, not only to his penis but to your vagina also. It will not be a wonder that you both enjoy this a lot and reach on climax together.  

 

 

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Early ejaculation turns her irritated!!

 

Early ejaculation turns her irritated!!

 

Guys, are you one of those who try to avoid sexual intimacy because of early to very early ejaculation. Every woman naturally desires her man to carry on more and more during sexual play on bed. In few cases it just not happens, man reach climax sooner than her. It has been observed that the normal average time until ejaculation is five minutes. But few always ejaculate within one minutes of penetration of penis into vagina or are always never able to delay ejaculation.

Naturally sexual desire in man is higher as compared to women. And  women may have tendency for demanding lengthy sexual plays.

On the contrary men gets aroused very early and due to less or no control, ejaculate soon even she is on the way of arousing.

It is obvious, reaching orgasm too early, gets her irritated, annoyed, and frustrated. If she can’t orgasm often becomes uninterested in sex, because your efforts might not fulfilling for her.

“In the long run, the woman becomes distressed and frustrated. Much like the man, she avoids sexual contact for fear of rejection and the resulting trauma for her own sexuality,” explains sex researcher Andrea Burri.

Despite what you might think, ejaculating early is not the end of the world. It fact depending on how react and what you do next, this can be still an absolutely wonderful, exciting and satisfying experience for both of you.

Now it might be necessary to learn how exactly to handle a situation when you shoot too quickly is obviously frustrating and not what you typically want to happen in bed. But it does happen whether you suffer from premature ejaculation or whether you can usually last as long as you want. And when it happens there isn’t much you can do it to stop it. However, what you do next can make a huge difference and be a deciding factor whether you both walk away disappointed or deeply satisfied.

Show positive reaction

 

The first thing you need to keep in mind is your own reaction to your early ejaculation. Yes it’s disappointing and not what you wanted. But acting all frustrated or even ignoring it, is going to make the situation worse. Why, because your reaction will in many cases tell her what to think about you, sexual relationship, or even live in relationship with you. It may be appreciable that you’re taking care of her socially, financially, but what about her sexual desire?  Have you ever thought that to fulfil sexual need of her is not less than fulfilling the need of any other most essential and demanding nature.  

Here is what I mean. If you start acting all depressed or annoyed, you are actually in that moment telling her that what had happened wrong meaning you shooting your load too quickly, which she doesn’t like, is in fact a terrible thing.  And when she sees  you getting down on yourself. She will very likely share the sentiment and feel disappointed. However if you make light of the situation and accept it with a sense of peace and a positive attitude, she will see that it’s no big deal. It’s always better to talk humbly, brief her  the reason of early release of white load, it may be due to mental tension, work overload, fatigue of the day and so on, believe me she will understand you and offer her help to get rid of the problem.   

Focus on her need & pleasure

 

Early ejaculation is not something unique, It happens to the most of the couples, and remember it’s not the end of the world, let’s move on just because  your penis is done for now, doesn’t mean that there is no other way to satisfy her.

Sex isn’t all about in the intercourse and there are many things to two of you can do together to have more erotic fun. So focus on her and her pleasure. Ask her what she would like, what she desires, what would give her the most pleasure in that moment.

Because while woman do love intercourse. She also really love other things too, particularly if you involve stimulating her clitoris, So go down on her or stimulate her with your hands and with plenty of lube. Use your pointed tongue to tease her clitoris, sometimes circle your finger and tongue on her anal opening too. Rub your genitals together, touch, kiss, caress her, give her an erotic massage or fulfil any other wish or desire that she might has, of course, yes a hard wand is awesome great for thrusting. But penetrating her with your penis is not what brings most women to orgasm.

Try again

 

Sex has no age bar. As age increases, everyone gets more maturity and experience. It’s not that you could not perform well this time, you’re failed, No it’s not true, you can do much better sometime later. Depending on your physical and mental capabilities, stamina, general health, fitness and a few other factors, you might be able to go again.

This is up to you to decide and if you can ask her to wait a while, and tell her that I need a little break but how about if I give you sensual touch or a full body sensational massage, or something more sensual which ever you like, while we wait? be honest to explain, that any other sexual activity will surely make me hard too, definitely she is going to like it,  and for sure it will enhance erotic feelings of both of you, will add more sexual satisfaction and provoke to enjoy more sexually and emotionally satisfaction too.

Talk to her

 

Communication is so important when it comes to sex. And particularly when it comes to sexual performance and any issue. Early ejaculation can and does happen and ignoring it is the worst thing that you can do. So talk to her, express how you feel and what you desire to create in your sex life together.

Tell her about your feelings of frustration, sadness, or disappointments when you can’t quite perform the way that you would like and ask her what you can do for her, to make her feel good and taken care of sexually speaking. Don’t assume that you know what she’s thinking. So many men think that good sex consist of plenty of fast, intense thrusting. But the truth is that actual real women want a lot of more than just a penis in her vagina action. And talking to her will teach you exactly what your woman desires.

Think ahead

And most important, always be far sighted, Never worry about coming early ever again. Do you want to feel confident that you can last as long as you want every single time. Do you want to never have to depend on medication, or numbing cream? There is lot to do, which is proven and tested. Just promise yourself to learn how to get harder, last as long as you want easily and naturally through the proper technique and practice it regularly. It’s not any impossible task. But easy and enjoyable which will assist you to feel healthy, enjoy your sexual life and more over satisfy your beloved one and keep her happy always.

 

FAQ—

Do early ejaculation creates problem for women?

In many cases yes, it creates, especially mental & sexual problem.

Is premature ejaculation is curable?

Of course it can be controlled and cured with the help of balance diet, regular physical & kegel exercise, good sound sleep, and medical advice if needed.

Any alternates of early ejaculation?

So many alternate sexual activities can satisfy woman, like gentle kissing, licking her genitals, bath together, sex toys, erotic body massage and so on.     

 

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